Are you the type of individual that has a difficult time letting something go? You reconsider each fault and each error, each broken human relationship. We have all been there at a time or another. But it is not a place where you wish to stay It’s one of the areas of change that is very personal. Growth always follows periods of healing emotional wounds.
Believe in yourself. Have faith that whatever you are trying to do, you can do it!.
Take time to mend: it’s stated that time heals all wounds. That is not always true. It requires time and work to manifest healing.
It’s essential to grieve: Grief is a part of the healing procedure. Let yourself go through all the phases of grieving. Denial, anger, natural depression, bargaining, resolution are a few of the steps to personal growth.
Letting anger work for you: being angry may be a favorable force, helping you to recognize that you are a worthwhile human, worthy of happiness. This is good as it means you’re ready to quit weeping and start to heal, to reconstruct you life and self-belief. If the anger turns to bitterness, then it’s negative and needs to be dealt with.
Accomplish something special: Go on a trip with individuals you love and feel like are supportive. Escaping from a terrible situation will help you gain a fresh perspective, heal more quickly and become regenerated.
Forgive yourself and attempt to forgive the individual that’s hurt you. They might not merit forgiving, but you merit the mending and the freedom you’ll acquire by doing so. You may ask “Why/How should I forgive them after what they did to me?” and that’s a fair question. the thing is, forgiving is letting go of the hold that the other person has on you through what they did. It’s for your benefit, not theirs.
Meditate: When we’re hurt it impacts more than just our minds, but our bodies and spirits as well. Take time to become hushed and meditate and/or pray, if that’s what’s right for you. Tell the higher power all about how you feel.
Laughter is like medication for the soul. Rent some movies you find funny and just laugh. Laughing feels great and releases endorphins. You’re on your way to healing and becoming stronger than ever and will be a more substantial individual.
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I have red you article “Giver’s gain” and I found it moving.
I am currently in a very sad situation with no job for more than one year, my wife and children away. I would very much like to be together again but my wife would not let me do and I know these last years, I have been terribly unfair and misbehaving because of the pressure from my job targets and the crisis. The most I need know is to find a job which gives me real satisfaction while still giving the minimum to sustain my family.
The problem is I do not find anything because I am not convinced and because I do not find a work I really want to commit to. This is vicious circle. I have no real dreams, maybe some ideas but which are not realistic if I take into account that my girls are still 6 and 12 and I need a minimum to earn. It ‘s tough. I hope I will get out of this dead-end.
I try to think of what has been positive during the day, even the smallest things. But the most important would be to find that dream I am convinced about so that I would not fear anymore. A dream that would give me confidence and hopefully send me back to my family, if it is not too late.
Let’s keep hope and glance at the fainty light at the end of the tunnel. Guillaume Mouterde
Hi Guillaume
You certainly have a tough situation to handle – for me the fundamental question would be, what is your ideal job? In other words what knowledge, skills and experience do you have that you would enjoy using in a job?
Do you have any skills you can market on-line? Do you have any knowledge and experience that you could market either as looking for employment or turn into an on-line service or even perhaps a digital product?
Thank you for commenting and good luck!
Light, Love and Peace,
Nic