Many people believe that if they are “spiritual” or wish to succeed in life, they should ignore unpleasant things that happen to them, in effect denying that they have happened and/or have had an effect on them. But it will have the opposite effect, hampering personal development and growth. [Read more...]
Denial will Always Hamper Your Personal Development
The Dutch Soccer Team and Personal Development
Many people are holding their personal development up by ignoring an important step – accepting repsosibility for their actions. [Read more...]
Who’s running your life?
Think of your life as being a sports match, or a performance in the theatre: in your life, are you a player, a spectator or a no-show?
Players take control and responsibility for their lives; spectators watch, surrendering most of their control and responsibility for outcome to others. No-show are unaware that the game’s afoot and adopt a victim mentality, blaming everything and everyone but themselves. Players act, spectators react, no-shows wonder what happened.
The list is much longer; more of it will appear in coming days.





